Morning Beauties!
Post wedding blues! Is it a thing? Have you had it? Have I got it?
Obviously when planning a wedding, that is all you talk about to EVERYONE you see! And the one question they all seemed to ask is 'What are you going to do with yourself after the wedding?'. The nearer the wedding got the easier my answer was. I was simply looking forward to a time when I didn't have to make decisions, search a hundred shops for one item and any spare money I had could be spent on me again haha!
I never understood when people said that they felt lost after the wedding or completely deflated. I could still only see excitement afterwards, not sadness. Your starting a new chapter together what's more exciting than that!
Well let me tell you.. I suprised myself!
On Sunday after THE most amazingly perfect day, I'd woke up, and was just pottering around the house and all of a sudden I just burst in to tears! Yep I know.. what the hell!!!
Tears just kept rolling down my face. I wasn't sad though. I was the happiest I'd ever been. Paul then woke up and walked in on me and was like "Whats the matter? Why are you crying?"
I couldn't give him an answer, just told him I didn't know but they weren't sad tears.
The few weeks running up to the wedding we had had A LOT of unexpected stress, so the fact that everything got sorted without it affecting the wedding was just pure relief. And that's what I put the tears down to. Along with the fact that I just couldn't believe everything went perfectly well. I obviously believed something would go wrong.
Since that Sunday though, I definitely haven't had wedding blues. I've just felt proud and enjoyed being a wife.
I'd be really interested in hearing from any of you if you did have wedding blues.
Mrs T
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